Have you ever found yourself thinking when am I ever going to have ME TIME??? I know I have in the past and it was very hard on me as I was a single mother at 20yrs old and when my son was a little over 3 I was dating someone and got pregnant again. When I was about 3 months pregnant I moved closer to my mother and sister and have regretted that since the day I left British Columbia.

When I was in British Columbia I had a hard time because I was a single mother with no car and on welfare, so I figured it would be easier in Alberta. The Jobs pay better here but being closer to family didn't make my situation easier on me whatsoever. I realised my mother was not the same person she was when she left B.C. and I couldn't deal with someone so cold hearted.

I lived in the town she was living in for a while then about a month before I was due she found me a place in a town ofabout 700 people. 2 days befor I delivered my daughter I moved into the house in Sangudo, Alberta and I loved it for quite a while, there were just problems with the house. So after I decided to go bak o school I decided to move near Red Deer, Alberta with my Aunt.

June 20th 2007 my aunt and her friend came to pick me, my stuff and the kids up from my home in Sangudo and move us out here to red deer. This was best move I could have ever made in my life. My aunt and uncle help me out so much its unbelievable.  If I everneed anything for myself or my kids they are always there to get it for me no matter what. My aunt helps by babysitting for me while I work and if I don't work but need to take one of my kidsto town she will babysit the other so I have somewhat of a break. I still have no idea how to repay them but I'm sure I will figure something out.

Well anyway my point  before I got sidetracked was that all parents whether we are single or not need to have "ME TIME". If you need help with anything and someone you know well had offered in the past. don't be scared or shy to ask for help. It makes us bigger people for asking for help when we need it , so don't let anything stand in your way.

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